missy girl has a problem. an i am not scared of scissors problem. also an i am not scared of what my mom will do when she sees what i have done with the scissors problem. this would be the fourth time we have been faced with the scissor issue. we hid them and kept them out of reach for about a year and we had no incidents. we were feeling like she was ready to have them again. coupled with the fact that she has set up her own craft station in her room it seemed impossible to imagine  a craft station without scissors, we brought the scissors back out.

within a week i started finding whisps of blonde hair at her craft station. upon a head examination we discovered ground zero. damage done.

“but mawwwm, they were in my eyes”

“well now they are shooting up in the air sooo…”

forever 21 aztec sweatshirt, we bought two sizes too big and cut to a boyfriend tee / gap skinny jeans



when i heard about the company juniorbeads, i was so intrigued. jewlery that is super safe for kids and since it is made of 100% silicone even my boys won’t break it.

they even have jewlery for moms that is safe for their babies to chew on. say what?  not only are their necklaces great for a teething baby they have a break away clasp and the colors are worthy of any mama’s wardrobe. can’t tell you how many necklaces i have lost because i took them off in the middle of a drooly teething session with my bebes.

and the colors? oh the colors are so so good.

here she is headed out the door for school…as soon as she is done coloring. which is never. ever.

blazer (old from baby gap boys dept) / tank / shorts / backpack (old from pbkids but similar here) / necklace  c/o/ shoes (old from crew cuts but similar here)

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ruby tuesdays is finding her style in the the boys department…

photo courtesy of madison avenue photography

oxford baby gap

try here for a similar look under $20

and here for under $15

so my daughter ended up with the mom who is not pink’s number one fan. i don’t think i hate pink,  no no i don’t. i just have a strained relationship with the color. many times when i enter a store in search of something for my little miss, i cringe at all the glitter and pink and purple and frankly brightness of it all. it makes me nervous the way tj maxx does (more on that later). many times i take a quick leap across the aisle that divides the boys from the girls and breathe out a deep sigh of relief at the sight of all blacks, grays and neutrals lying in the boys section. i am home among my neutrals.

i never underestimate the versatility of the boys section. for the last several years i have acquired some amazing chunky black grandfather cardigans for the missy straight from the boys department. the boys department tends to use more interesting button options (think wood and brass) and knit detailing because it does not rely as much on color as a design statement but rather focuses on design details like texture and fabric.

gap is my favorite place to shop for boys items for ruby because they always have the classics; blazers, cable knit sweaters, brown belts, oxford shirts, flannels and striped sweaters.

below are some of my faves this season.

all items can be found at babyGap
so do i dress my daughter like a boy? i think not but if she is really wanting a pop of girlyness, which sometimes she does, i can always add a neon pink skinny jean, glitter Toms or her favorite purple tank to layer underneath sweaters and let it peek out of the bottom of her boy sweater for her pop of color.


this ruby tuesdays is an easter/ holiday / wedding hair tutorial: twisted crown / ballerina bun for little girls.

this year i wanted to do something special for ruby’s hair for easter. generally  the little missy girl is the focal point of any family outfitting concept i may have. this easter she is taking a back seat to her brothers that got matching easter suits (more to come on those gems this week). since my entire “easter dress budget” was spent on the boys i had little left for my little love.

her easter outfit consists of this h&m lace top $17.99, she already owned and this target pleated skirt$14.99 and her old zara ankle cowboy boots, featured here.

as you know from this hair tutorial, i am lacking in hair doing skills. again i called my dear friend brittney over for support and she came up with this simple, pretty, feminine style.

i love that this will look cuter and cuter as the day goes on. i love the idea of whispy pieces hanging out and the looseness of the twist.

we felt inspired by the popular period pieces (insert downton abbey and game of thrones) we have been watching on tv and are thinking sticking flowers in this look would just be amazing.

okay lets get started…

this is britney’s girl H. she has fine hair about to her shoulders. britney had just taken it out of two tight buns on top of her head so it happens to be wavy here. note, waviness is not needed for this look.

1. Part hair at desired part. Take a section that is about 1 inch by 3 inches.

2. Split into 2 even sections and then cross the piece closest to her face over back piece. No twisting needed.

3. Grab about a half inch section of hair from the hair line and add it to the current front piece (used to be back peice) and cross over back peice.

4. Continue adding hair to whichever section is closest to hair line and crossing over back piece past the ear.

5. Continue around the back of head, allowing more space from hair line and keeping the hair tight. Across the back of head the twist should sit just below the occipital bone.

6. When you reach the mid point in the back, twist the two sections aroud each other. (noting that you still do not need to twist before twisting.. sounds confusing but basically just keep it very simple)

7. Then secure with a rubber band close to the scalp temporarily.

8. Repeat the process starting on the other side.

9. When you get to the mid point in back twist the section as you did on the other side (#6).Then cross with the other side while twisting to keep it tight.

10. Secure with rubber band. (clear is preferable) this is a cute stopping point for a less formal day.

11. use traditional twist technique. Two sections of hair, twist both the same direction, then wrap them around one another in the opposite direction.

12. Then wrap this into a bun and secure with bobby pins.

here is ruby. her hair is pretty thick and hangs down to her waist. notice how we finish this differently then the bun. the hair wraps all the way around like a crown.

The technique for this one is very similar. You still start with two sections the same size, beginning at the part and adding hair in the same manner.

Because Ruby has so much hair and it is so long, she is a great candidate to continue the twist all the way around the head and back across the top to create a halo or crown effect. In order to have the twist look right when you get to the end where you are not adding hair, you must use the technique described in #11 the whole time.

from the beginning, twist both sections to the right and then cross them to the left. Add hair and twist to the right, and cross to the left and repeat all the way around head, through the end of the twist and secure with rubber band.

Wrap the end across top of head and hide ends using bobby pins.

If sections across the back seem loose or heavy, you can secure them by lifting them a bit and securing them with bobby pin.

If the tail of your twist isn’t as thick as this one pictured and it looks too thin, you can pull at it, lossening the hair after it has been secured so that the width of it looks even across the top of the head.

left dress here / center top here/ j crew necklace (old), similar here / right dress here


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