a funny thing happened this holiday week. as i lifted my head from the fog that accompanies a week of chronic migraines I find my little rubes dawning a new slouchy beanie. she ran out the door to go camping with her daddy and brothers and although she left the dust and dirt behind she returned home with the beanie glued to her little head. on the third day she came to give me kisses before she went off to play in the backyard with yet another beanie on. she had been collected them all over the house because some were mine, some were her brothers.
i asked her to sit with me to go over some things she wanted for christmas. as we made her list and began to address the “something to wear” part of the conversation i told her how much i loved her new look and how cute the little hats were on her with her wild braids hanging down the sides.
ipulled up some of our favorite sites and she approved and denied several articles of clothing until i got to her favorite store, zara. i scrolled through the sweatshirts and she hemmed and hawed. i said, “i thought you loved sweatshirts? don’t you? you love being comfy.” she responded “no no mom. you have me all wrong. i am much more of a sweater girl.” oh. well okay. i couldn’t help but to secretly smile the way moms do when you feel like you have won the style war and they don’t even know it. sweaters? yes please! i love sweaters.i love how she put her own little twist on this big chunky sweater from gap with her slouchy beanie, oversized boyfriend tee and coated denim… along with her brothers hand me down sherpa boots from costco. a complete departure from the preppy plaid look she wore a few weeks ago.